Shopping for lingerie for your boudoir session can seem daunting. Their are so many styles, confusing sizes, fits and brands it can be overwhelming for women who don’t normally buy lingerie outside of comfortable everyday wear. But no worries, I am here to help add clarity – It’s time to find some sexy pieces to bring out your most iconic + powerhouse self.
Finding your fit
It’s been estimated that 2/3s of women are wearing the wrong bra size. What is important in choosing lingerie is that it fits well & embraces your body. Making sure you are wearing/buying the right size bra is crucial – the last thing you want to deal with during your session is unnecessary bulging, pinching, or squishing. So finding your perfect fit is a must. I recommend going to a specialty lingerie boutique for this or to Nordstrom. I do not recommend Victoria’s secret for bra fitting – they have their own sizing system and it is often inconsistent with a limited range of sizing.
Discovering your style
Most important step of all is figuring out what style you feel your sexiest. Soft feminine lacy pieces, strappy black sets, the full ensemble with a garter belt, thigh highs and stilettos… Determine the style you are going for and shop accordingly. We will discuss this in more detail in our pre-shoot consultation and I can help create pinterest board of styles for you based on what you tell me.
Where to shop
Here is a list of some of my go-to places for lingerie –
Bluebella $$
Bluebella is one of my absolute favorite places to get lingerie. High quality and affordable. Their styles are fashion forward and designed to be “highly wearable” self indulgences for modern women. Many of their bodysuits can be paired with a pair of jeans for a night out and their bras and panties are comfortable enough to wear during the day as your own sexy little secret.
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For Love and Lemons $$$
Sugar and spice and everything nice; for love and lemons is the quintessential brand for ultra feminine styles. Think florals, lace, frilly embellishments, and vintage fits. They have some of the most unique styles I’ve seen – you know them when you see them: not easily replicable and extremely brand aware.
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Savage x Fenty by Rhianna $$
Bold, vibrant, fearless, sassy, comfortable. Inclusive sizing. Rhiannon’s new lingerie label is HOT.
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Nordstrom $$$
Nordstrom has a wide range of lingerie, shape wear, hosiery, and great service – I definitely recommend them for a bra fitting if you are lucky enough to have one close by.
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Honey Birdette $$$
Gorgeous styles, very unique and detailed sets. If you like the strappy/bondage type look they have some of the sexiest sets here.
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Agent Provocateur $$$$
Classic, iconic, sexy, high-quality, luxury, prestige brand, bondage, vintage, feminine. The sets I have purchased from agent provocateur are some of my all time favorites. The quality is unparalleled and the styles are timeless and sexy as hell. But be prepared to splurge. 💸💸💸
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Maison Close $$$
Luxury European lingerie brand. Some of the best quality stockings and thigh highs available. Beautiful + timeless. Need I say more?
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Thistle and Spire $$
Lacy, strappy, feminine, edgy, super unique pieces. They have some of my favorite bodysuits.
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Lonely Lingerie $$
Vintage styles that are both unique & feminine. Lots of sheer, floral lace. Lonely Lingerie has plus sizes as well. Their sizing is brand specific so be sure to check out their size guide.
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Victoria’s Secret $$
Needs no introduction. Easily accessible – store locations all over the place. Brand Specific bra sizing – be sure to get fitted.
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Yandy $
Yandy has a HUGE selection of intimates and accessories. It isn’t the highest quality but it often photographs beautifully and at a price you just can’t beat. Be sure to order a good variety of things because it can sometimes be hit or miss on fit.
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Best Lingerie stores for Plus size styles
Addition Elle $$
Feminine, lacy, strappy, classic, unique, great variety of styles for plus size women.
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Lane Bryant $$
Classic styles, feminine, lacy, strappy, great variety of styles for plus size women.
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Torrid $$
Plenty of trendy styles to choose from at an affordable price point.
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